Would you give up sex if you could be a famous actor?
Would you give up love if you could play the guitar perfectly?
What would you give up if you could be made beautiful? If your nose could look sculpted by an artist, and your body a flawless image which could grace magazine covers? If you could make someone you wanted to be attracted to you feel attracted to you...
It's always been give and take, buy and sell, more and less, a power struggle, and it will always be this way, as far as I can tell. Equality exists nowhere in the world, no matter what you think. Keep dreaming.